Age 
Level

Moral Development

Spiritual
Development

Intellectual
Development

 

Birth to
5 or 6

No sense of right/wrong.
Totally self-centered.
Avoids behavior that makes
caregiver anxious. 
Learning to obey rules – consistency important.

Learns to trust self/others.
Learns that self is separate from parents, resulting in self-assertion and need for self-control.  Senses love. Imitates adult participation in religious activity.  Accepts religious images and fantasies.

Reflex action becomes coordinated muscle response.  Searches, imitates, recalls and invents.  Begins forming mental images.
Confusion of real and imaginary. Engages in fantasy play, not reality based.

 

Grades
1 – 5

 

Conforms in order to be rewarded, have favors returned.  Fairness is very important.  Feelings of others become important.  Acts in ways to please others, to be liked, or to gain attention.

Learns Bible stories and key people.  Enjoys successful learning, builds self-esteem. Takes stories and myth literally. Concepts are concrete:  God is like a person. Likely to follow adult authority.

Learns best from varied, active, concrete activities:  touching and manipulating.  Decline of fantasy play. Reasons logically with present and concrete objects, but can’t see all theoretical possibilities.

 

Grades
6 - 8

Peer acceptance increases in importance. Behavior copies that of peers. Avoidance of guilt by obeying social and ethical rules and authority figures.

Begins to develop a clearer sense of “who I am” and “what I stand for.”  May experience a sense of relationship with God.  May be confirmed within local church.

Begins to think abstractly.  Builds concepts out of facts. Begins to consider and test range of possibilities.

 

Grades
9 - 12

Right or wrong is a matter of personal opinion and value. Community is expected to obey laws or help change them.

Puts together a belief system based on many authorities, adults and peers.  May abandon earlier conventional faith and shape one’s own special version based on worldview and multiple faith traditions.

Uses varied thought processes. More flexible and versatile.  Speculates about and is motivated by abstract ideals: justice, freedom.

 

Ages
18 - 25

Decisions of conscience based on self-chosen ethical principles.

Learns to love and care intimately for others.  May affirm beliefs, symbols and rituals of church as one’s own.  May acknowledge traditions of other cultures.

More able to apply intellectual skill in intensive, goal-directed study, work, social participation

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